PROMISE OF MARRIAGE

On May 98, wrote in a text which stated that beautiful thought the marriage ritual of the church with their white dresses and red carpet, but that the only thing that I offending was the sermon of the priest: "promise to be faithful and joy in sorrow, in health and disease, loving him and respecting him until the death to escape? " I think simplistic and a little outside of reality. Here are suggestions for new sermons: promise not to let the passion to make you a controlling person, but respect the individuality of her lover, remembering always that he does not belong to you and that is on their side by spontaneous and free will? Promise know be friend (o) and be lover, knowing exactly when to enter into a scene and another, without that you become a person of dual identity or a person less romantic? Promise to make the passage of years a way of maturing and not a means of recovery by dreams dreamed that did not arrive to achieve? Promise feel pleasure to be with the person you have chosen and be happy next to it by the simple fact that it is the person who best knows you and therefore better prepared to help you, and you with it? Promise to get know? Promise that follow are a kind person, caring and educated, not the routine use as an excuse for its lack of humor? Promise that will shameless sex, which will make children and a desire for love, not because it is what is expected of you, and that educate to be independent and well informed about the reality that awaits? Promise not speak badly of the person with whom he married just for laughs off the other? Promise that the word freedom follow the same importance it has always had in your life, you will be accountable for yourself without being slave the other and that will deal with their own loneliness, which eliminates any marriage? Promise to be as even as you age minutes before entering the church? Therefore, I declare them much more than husband and wife: DECLARED ADULTS